Valentines Tips To Make Her Happy

The key to any Valentines Day is not how much you spend, what you do, or where you do it...it's about "how" you do it. Not only will your woman love you for it but she will remember it in her heart of hearts, hopefully for a long time. Or at least when you do something else that may not be so pleasing to her. The very worst thing you can do on Valentines is to do the same old, same old things you always do, or to treat what you do with apathy or complacency.

Now you can buy the the most expensive red roses or the largest bouquet of flowers available but it's how you give them that matters.  If your wife or girlfriend works, as many women do, then you can have them delivered to her office.  The attention she will get from the other girls in the office is a plus and she loves to have everyone know how much you care.  Writing a simple but sexy note along with it is even better.  If she is a housewife or out of work you could drop by the house early and drop them off yourself.  Having them delivered to the house is alright but the public attention is limited at best.  Meeting for lunch or dinner and giving them to her there is nice but sometimes hard to figure out what to do with them until you get home.  But the main point is that the flowers don't need to be the most expensive but they should be a flower she does like, a color she does like, and hand delivered.

     Now when I say "changing things up", I don't mean you cannot do anything the same like go to your favorite restaurant.  You can do things that are familiar to you.  You can go to an old haunt or theater to bring back fond memories.  That actually is a very good idea and I do recommend it.  But again, it's the "how" that is so important.  If you switch up a few things it can make a world of difference.  Sit next to her at dinner  rather than across from her or visa versa.  Just switch up your methods a little.  Really listen to her if you don't already.  Talk a little bit about what you want to do when you get home.  Hold her hand, caress her.  Kiss her, but make sure you don't overdo any of these things because you can make her feel uncomfortable if she is not used to that kind of treatment.  A little bit will go a long way.  Open her car door for her, don't rush or get aggravated with traffic or anything that could distract you.  "Focus" on her....she will love it.

     You have set the stage for a romantic night so do not blow it by drinking too much or saying you are tired.  Don't keep her out too late so she is ready for some sleep instead of fun.  If you have children it's a great idea to have them do a sleepover at grandmas if possible but most times it isn't.  Tell the kids we are going to bed early and go to your room and lock the door.  You are now both in your own little love nest and do not let anyone bother you.  Let her take a shower first if the kids need help getting in bed or join her halfway through if everyone is sleeping.  Throw some petals on the bed.  Light a candle.  Turn on some romantic music....just do something different...and make it all about her.  You should have an excellent evening and she will remember the experience for years to come.

Please comment any specific creative ideas you may have so all of my readers can see them.  I know that there are thousands of ideas but the variety of new ideas can really help to keep love from stagnating.  Thank you and Happy Valentines Day!